final boarding call
- Sue Stokes
- May 26
- 1 min read
Updated: Jun 11
I was running to the gate. Final boarding call. There is nothing quite like a flight departure to expose exactly how little control we actually have over our lives. We arrive at airports with carefully planned itineraries, confirmation emails, estimated arrival times and a quiet confidence that preparation is enough to keep things under control. Then, almost immediately, the system starts improvising. Flights are delayed. Gates are changed. Unexpected weather systems introduce entirely new storylines somewhere over Singapore.
Yet, notice how we behave in response. We continue moving through terminals with remarkable determination, as though momentum itself might improve the outcome. Departure boards are checked repeatedly and boarding passes are reopened despite containing exactly the same information they contained five minutes earlier.
Fully grown adults end up sitting on terminal floors, frantically redistributing shoes and chargers to make everything fit, trying to reason with airline weight limits as though there’s still room for discussion. A very specific kind of pride emerges when a suitcase avoids the "heavy" sticker by a mere 0.2 kilograms. Against all odds, it briefly feels like a personal victory over both physics and airline policy.
Underneath all of this is a familiar pattern: the belief that the original plan may still prevail. Not because the evidence supports it. Mostly because people seem deeply reluctant to accept that the schedule has already moved on without them.
Airports are full of people acting as though the schedule might still change its mind. Life, it seems, loves a final boarding call.